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Thursday, March 7, 2024

If You Know Me, This Is Not News

Old school, Empire, Michigan

 

“Old School”

 

Yes, I am “Old School,” as the phrase is used nowadays – as an adjective for someone who clings to old ways rather than leaping (blindly, I would say) into every new technology that comes along and leaving the tried-and-true behind. Recently a friend told me about a family whose expensive home is completely “paperless,” and I was, frankly, appalled. Family members read books and magazines but don’t keep them when they have finished reading. Out they go!

 

My first thought was, how terrible that would be for babysitters! 


I was remembering a family I babysat for regularly in my old home neighborhood, a young couple who had only two printed items in their home, the current TV Guide and a tattered Frederick’s of Hollywood catalog. The parents stayed out late when they went out, there was only one child, and the parents paid well, but the barrenness of their home environment made the hours heavy going. These days, though, I suppose babysitters are simply glued to their phones after the children go to sleep. It’s a different world….


Three letters went out in the mail to friends this morning.

 

Someone who is “Old School” writes letters on paper, buys stamps for the envelopes, and trusts to the United States Postal Service to deliver. (Thank you, Benjamin Franklin and USPS!) One day last week I hit the jackpot and found four letters from friends waiting in my post office box. Jackpot!!! Letter-writing is not about immediate gratification but about taking time, “spending time” with absent friends, anticipation, and so much more. Follow this link to Leelanau Letter Writers and see if you might want to join a slow movement.



Well-used and well-loved road atlases from my home shelves --


A road taken....


Someone who is “Old School” loves maps – maps on paper! Yes, everyone can access maps on their phones and, in newer model cars, on screens built into the dashboard, but when you zoom in for detail, you lose the big picture, and I want both at once! I also want to make notes on the pages. A 2015 atlas is not “outdated” for me; it is redolent of trips taken and sights seen, possible roads as well as those remembered, because dreaming over maps is also another form of armchair travel. There are places I have never been, except through books and movies and maps. 

 

The ivy isn't plastic, either.

Writing checks is really “Old School,” and I make no apology for paying my bills with checks. How many companies do I want to have access to my bank account to grab what they say I owe? How large a balance do I want on my credit card to pay off every month? Fewer and fewer people bring either cash or checks to my bookstore, and I’ve adjusted to the changing times in that regard (there’s no staying in business without adaptation to change), but I prefer to pay my own business expenses and home bills by check. When told by another business a few days ago that they have “no way to process checks,” I was more than a little annoyed by that flimsy excuse. They had no problem “processing” the cash I handed over, and the “process” is the same: check or cash, deposit it in your business account! I have not stayed in business for over three decades by passing bad checks and do not care for the implied – though carefully disguised – insinuation. 

 

Home library bookshelves reflected on glass of photograph

Finally, being “Old School” means loving books!!! Printed books, bound books, books on paper – the descendants of the 4th century Greek Codex Sinaiticus. Handier than scrolls, much lighter in weight than stone tablets, books properly bound and cared for can outlast the civilizations that produce them. Take a look at the Florentine Codex, a 12-volume work on the Nahua culture in Mexico, before and during colonization by Spain, with a general explanation of what constitutes a codex. A proud tradition of literacy.

 

For me, having my own home library is essential to feeling at home at all. Besides books, I also have many physical albums of photographs. Although more modern people (more modern than I will ever be) are content to store their “books” and “photographs” in a “cloud,” make no mistake about it: A cloud isn’t some physical warehouse in the sky; it’s just someone else’s bigger computer somewhere else, and that’s not good enough for me. I want to know that my photographs will be in my albums every time I open the covers, just as I want to know that the books in my home library will contain the same words, in the same order, every time I open to see and read those pages. No one is going to hack into some distant computer and alter my favorite histories, novels, essays, or poetry books!

 

(I don’t want “virtual nature,” either. I want nature, the real thing. What is the point of living on earth if we have to live as if we’re on a space station?) 

 

As I say, if you know me, none of this is news to you, and if we’ve never met you might guess at some of it because, after all, I have been a bookseller, with an open shop, i.e., a “bricks & mortar” location for over 30 years. Are independent bookstores all disappearing? The people who think so are not regular bookstore customers. Does nobody read any more? The people who ask the question are not readers. 


Other questions people ask: “Where do you get all your books?” and “Have you read every book in here?” The answer to the second question is no. As for the first question, there is no single answer. Some books I buy, some are donated to me, some are brought in by customers for trade credit. I don’t have time to spend running around to auctions and garage sales, but occasionally I’ll be invited to take a look at a private library and make an offer – or simply take off their hands as many books as I think I can use. In the past few weeks, I had a chance to look at three different collections that needed to be downsized or dismantled. Classics, being classics, are always in demand; in a village on the Great Lakes with a maritime history and a beautiful modern marina, boating books are always important for my collection; and philosophy, while hardly a bestselling section, is one of my personal specialties, so I was happy to fill gaps that had appeared on those shelves. 



Aviation had to move over in the bookcase with military history ...


to make room for more boating books, with more in the way.

Philosophy got a complete reorganization ...

from A to Z.


Audiobooks

 

Now, before anyone takes me to task for my old-fashioned ways, let me say that I understand perfectly well that as we age, there can be problems with eyesight or even trouble with hands, either making the holding and reading of physical books difficult -- or maybe you just want to listen to a book while on your stationary bicycle --- so this “Old School” bookseller has jumped on a modern bandwagon with libro.fm for your listening pleasure. Your audiobooks won’t cost you any more on libro.fm than you would pay the online behemoth, you can choose an independent bookstore to support, and naturally I will be happy to have you choose Dog Ears Books. Thank you!!!


Old school, Maple City, Michigan

13 comments:

Anonymous said...

Love your bookstore, I visit every summer! ♥️

P. J. Grath said...

Thank you!!! I love welcoming returning customers each summer!

Anonymous said...

I have Libro and love it.

P. J. Grath said...

Hooray!!!!!

Dweeb Mom said...

We have been visiting for nearly 20 years. First it was my husband who would drain your philosophy section every summer. Now it is my son. We now own two copies of our beloved “Plato bible” first acquired at your store. Cash only meant that you had a silver dollar we could get as change - important when the tooth fairy has to make an unexpected trip “up north” <3

P. J. Grath said...

My philosophy section has recently been beefed up with lots of 20th-century analytic works: Russell, Searle, Davidson, etc. Yes, I was cash-only for a LONG time but now take all manner of electronic payments at the counter (cards that tap still amuse me), but you probably don't need tooth fairy dollar coins any more. A dollar??? We were excited to get quarters, back in my antedeluvian childhood.

Jeanie Furlan said...

How frustrating! My rambling, long paragraph is lost to someone in the Cloud, to an amorphous Being that loves to wreak havoc. Sigh! You are funny about the tooth fairy and what we got as kids….a silver dollar was a twice-in-a-lifetime event, and we also were lucky to get quarters! Times have changed! My Lost Cloud Comments were basically celebrating your Olde School habits and thoughts and agreeing that booksBOOKS, real ones, are the way to go. We bought 15 books in Portuguese for our 7-mo-old granddaughter, Leona Beatriz, even plastic ones for bathtime. Julia & Steph are wonderful moms, even bringing little Baby Bia down here to São Paulo to get together with cousins from Germany & Australia, so we’ll be having a very multi-lingual and festive time! Maps!! Books!! 📚 You are doing THE VERY BEST with your bookstore and gleaning of the best in peoples’ book collections, making sure that you can offer real books in a real store, even on vacation. How wonderful to see that a client has been coming for 20 years - it is so admirable! We’ll all try to keep reading alive! Real Books 📚!! Yay!!

Jeanie Furlan said...

Geez Louise! Another Lost in the Cloud commentary! I’ll try later!! 😠!!

P. J. Grath said...

No, no, no, not lost, Jeanie! They don't appear immediately, because I "moderate," i.e., delete any spam and publish only real comments from real people.

I love that Leona Beatriz is being given books already. Off to a good start! And what fun you will all have getting together in Brazil with family from all over the world!

Thank you for your unfailing enthusiasm, which always makes me smile and somethings LAUGH OUT LOUD with joy!!!

Karen Casebeer said...

I hear you and understand but I think there's room for both old school and new school in today's world. I love the convenience of downloading quick-read books on my iPad, but also cherish buying and reading special hardbound books when they come along. I enjoy planning my next exploration on the maps in my Gazetteer, but love saying "Siri, take me home" when I'm lost in the boonies somewhere.

P. J. Grath said...

You are not alone. Many of my friends and customers are where you are, though I resist becoming acquainted with either Siri or Alexa. But on my life, Facebook and Blogger are modern, as is tapping credit cards -- or simply having customers hold their phones up to my Square terminal -- to accept payment for books on Waukazoo Street.

Suzy K said...

I love your blog and your bookstore. I was in last week and bought several titles and I hope to switch to Libro soon. Unfortunately, I spend most of my time on computers and my phone because of work and what is required to communicate with those that I love. I find it quite difficult to draw boundaries with technology, largely because things change so quickly and so few people seem to question whether what is new is what is best. My colleagues act like I am a Luddite when I question, so I keep my thoughts to myself these days. I admire you greatly for resisting and holding firm to what you believe.

Finding a letter in my mailbox is still one of my greatest joys in life and I cannot imagine my home without books. Last summer when I visited friends in rural Vermont, I found that my phone was without signal and my car doesn’t have a GPS system, so I reached for my trusty road atlas, usually located on the back floorboard. It wasn’t there! I must have taken it out when I was vacuuming before I hit the road. It was a disaster. None of the small shops or gas stations in the tiny towns I drove through in the Northern Kingdom carried maps anymore! I made my way, but the first thing I did when I got home after the trip was to buy a new atlas. I love it.

P. J. Grath said...

Suzy, hi! We had a good visit when you were in last, and I look forward to the next, comparing notes again on our reading and our dogs.

A couple years ago a friend told me how hard it is getting to be to find printed maps, and I have verified that for myself. Postcards are also becoming elusive, as people simply take pictures with their phones and send them. I send photos from my phone but also love postcards and am happy to find them on my travels and frustrated when I can’t find any.

The first couple of years the Artist and I were in Cochise County, AZ, for the winter, we had to drive several miles down the highway to get a phone signal. It added to the peacefulness of the cabin, but in later years, with a different server, we were able to make and receive calls from “home,” which became more and more important as we aged.

Books, maps, atlases, postcards, letters, printed photographs in albums — I don’t need batteries or signals to enjoy any of them! And yet here I am, on my laptop, leaving a reply to your oh-so-welcome comment and proving that I am not a totally extinct species!