We’ve always done it. Read aloud to each other, I mean. At times
we have shared whole books this way, reading as long at bedtime as the reader’s
voice holds out and then closing the book until the next night. We also enjoy
reading aloud on long car trips, stopping for conversation and then taking up
the narrative again, reader and driver thus traveling two simultaneous trips
together, one through surrounding space, another in shared mental images called
forth by a writer’s words.
A short list of older books I can recommend for this sort of
reading would include the following: Wind in the Willows; Mary Norton’s The
Borrowers; Shantyboat, by Harlan Hubbard; any of Wendell Berry’s
novels; A Tree Grows in Brooklyn, by Betty Smith; The Trees, by Conrad Richter;
Bruce Catton’s Michigan books; An Hour Before Daylight, by Jimmy Carter;
good books on writing, e.g., Stephen King’s On Writing.
Books not to try: anything by Raymond Chandler or
anything else depending overmuch on dialogue without noting who said what. Too
confusing trying to keep speakers straight—doesn’t work.
Naturally, there are a near-endless number of good newer titles, fiction and nonfiction,
that would make good reading aloud. What would you recommend?
Why not audiobooks? People have asked me if David and I ever
listen to them, and the answer is that we have tried them--on rare occasions.
After I’d read King’s On Writing to myself and then read most of it aloud to
David, we listened to the whole thing once again in the car. That was good.
Another time we listened to a Tony Hillerman mystery. And once we dragged ourselves
(or were dragged, I guess I should say) through most of On the Trail of the
Assassins, with actor Ed Asner doing the reading and pronouncing “Guy Bannister” in such an exaggeratedly sinister tone every time the name occurred
that we couldn’t help laughing, though the subject matter was hardly amusing.
If I were traveling alone, I might listen to recorded books more often, but
traveling with David, I infinitely prefer his voice or mine, and he doesn’t
argue with my preference.
For one thing, our choices are as infinite as the books we take
with us or buy along the way. The main advantage, however, to my way of
thinking, is that when I’m reading aloud or David is reading to me, no
recording is setting the pace, and we can easily stop and start, as reader and
driver feel the need or desire. Sometimes we pause to discuss what we’ve been
reading, and other times we just want to immerse ourselves in the landscape
outside the car windows—because one does tend to make what elementary school
teachers now call “mind movies” while reading or listening, and it’s hard to
appreciate fully one’s surrounding travel scenery with a different movie
playing in one’s head.
I’ll go further with this idea: we don’t read as much in
the car as we might otherwise because I like to be where I am, not somewhere
else. Just as I normally hate expressways, it’s on expressways that I am most
likely to say, “Would you like me to read a while?” Reading aloud is good when
the view is boring, not when it’s beautiful!
Now of course (going back to the business of taking a pause in
the reading) one can stop and start a recording, too (tape or disk or
whatever), but somehow it seems to require more effort, and certainly it doesn’t
usually seem worthwhile to stop and go back if one misses a single word,
whereas we can easily do that when we read aloud to one another. "He picked up a what?" Easily answered. Nothing missed.
But maybe the best part of reading aloud to each other is the intimacy
involved. Any listening together involves sharing, but reading to each other
also has the element of giving and receiving. The passenger can be doing
something for the driver. Obviously, then, reading in bed is also important for
reasons other than the story: It’s a way the reader can turn
to his or her book before sleep without shutting out the other person.
P.S. from two years ago: "David and I took turns driving south yesterday, and since the beautiful prairie is (it cannot be denied) somewhat monotonous after a while, while one of us drove the other generously read aloud for many miles, David from Andrei Codrescu’s The Disappearance of the Outside and I, from the introduction, Inagua: An Island Sojourn, by Gilbert C. Klingel. From the repression of thought in Stalinist Russia to a storm-battered sailboat on the Atlantic in 1929, we took turns keeping whoever was driving in a state of high alert rather than succumbing to road fatigue."
P.S. from two years ago: "David and I took turns driving south yesterday, and since the beautiful prairie is (it cannot be denied) somewhat monotonous after a while, while one of us drove the other generously read aloud for many miles, David from Andrei Codrescu’s The Disappearance of the Outside and I, from the introduction, Inagua: An Island Sojourn, by Gilbert C. Klingel. From the repression of thought in Stalinist Russia to a storm-battered sailboat on the Atlantic in 1929, we took turns keeping whoever was driving in a state of high alert rather than succumbing to road fatigue."
That's what I'm talking about.